This article uses vulgar language and explicit examples to make an important point about a serious issue. If you feel they might be a trigger for you, now would be a good time to click away. Today, I’ve transcribed a short, thought-provoking video about the true nature of pornography and the degenerate culture it has given rise to. In the clip, Mark Queppet, founder of Universal Man, commentates a Reddit post in which the author shares his observation that pornography is a lot like cucking. The historical definition of a “cuck” (short for cuckold), is a man whose wife was unfaithful. (A secondary definition of a “cuck” is a “weak or overly submissive man.”) That said, there is a genre in pornography where men watch their women have sex with other men (and it happens in real life, too, I’m told, shockingly). If you didn’t already know this, you may be thinking, what could possibly be behind such a demeaning, seemingly inexplicable phenomenon?
Queppet argues (in agreement with the Reddit author) that pornography fosters “cuck culture.” Pornography, essentially, consists of watching a woman you are attracted to, whom you wish you could be with, in action with someone else. (You can modify the roles to fit all relevant scenarios.) Queppet acknowledges that there are deeper factors that contribute to a porn habit or addiction (e.g. stress, loneliness, boredom). However, Queppet asserts, arriving at a strong conviction that pornography is “poor behavior” and “not the man I want to be” is prerequisite for the more holistic work needed to change. Pornography, in a word, is self-deprecating, servile, and indecent. It promotes and normalizes “cuck culture” in every sense of the term. *Yuck.*
People can rationalize it all they want, but, as we like to say in the vernacular, “it is what it is.”
Check out the complete video and transcript below!
This is the reality of it. This is what porn is. And it’s like, do you want to be this creeper? ‘Cause that’s what you’re doing. You’re just being a creeper. These are real people that you’re looking at. . . But at the end of the day here, guys, you got to wake up. Otherwise, you’re just going to live as a cuck, and you’re never going to be really happy with yourself, because that’s not the man you are meant to be.
Mark Queppet
For more from Mark Queppet, see Quitting Porn Is The Rite Of Passage For The Modern Man and Sexual Transmutation Explained (Mark Queppet).
Porn And Cuck Culture
Intro: Next up we got a Reddit post from r/purplepilldebate called “Pornography is the epitome of cuck culture.”
Reddit post: “A few minutes ago I was watching porn. [Yes, I gave into cuck culture. You can laugh at me.] And after post-nut clarity hit me, I came to a realization: pornography, as a whole, is the epitome of cuck culture. Think about it. We derive pleasure from watching random men **** women we desire. In the case of company-made porn, it’s at the very least staged, but amateur and homemade videos aren’t, so they’re even cuckier. The only exception would be masturbation videos. Watching porn is seen as normal now, thus proven that cuck culture has been normalized to the point that literal cuck culture is seen as a normal and healthy thing.”
I’ve been saying this for years, guys. That’s what it is. Porn is cucking, more or less. Now, I already know what the objection is going to be, and I bet if I scroll down, I’m going to see it. But let’s just play this out, okay?
It’s like put things in hunter-gatherer scenario. You’re little [Uke] in the village and you got the hots for some cavewoman, but you’re not quite her type. You don’t have enough status. You don’t kill enough mammoths, and so she goes with [Grock] into the bushes, and he’s giving her the old 1-2. You go climb a tree or something, you watch them, and you beat off.
That’s what porn is. It’s like you watching someone that you wish you were banging, and that’s pretty cucky to me. Let’s see if I’m right here, Pete.
Oh, “What if I told you there’s porn without any men in it?” (Reddit comment)
There it is. So if there’s no men in it, it’s not cucking. Right? Right. Perfect. Instead, let’s change that caveman scenario. Instead of watching the girl you like get banged and jerking off to that, you’re just watching her bathe or pleasure herself, and then you’re sitting in the bushes and still jerking off to it. It’s not much better, guys. Arguably, it’s even more sad. I don’t know if it’s more sad. They’re both pretty sad. They’re both pretty creepy.
This is the reality of it. This is what porn is. And it’s like, do you want to be this creeper? ‘Cause that’s what you’re doing. You’re just being a creeper. These are real people that you’re looking at. And yet maybe they even want you to do it, but what does that say about you?
It’s like you’re letting yourself be degraded simply because you don’t have control over your sexual charge, and so much of this stuff is like tied to so much deeper sh*t, I know. It’s like it’s become your panacea. It’s become the way you deal with your stress, with your loneliness, with your boredom, with your angst about the world. I get it. You know, I’ve got a whole series on this kind of stuff.
But at the same time, sometimes you just got to wake up to the truth like “This is poor behavior. This is not the man I want to be.” And once you can get that clear in your heart, clear in your head, then you can go about being like “How do I actually solve this?” What are the underlying issues here? What am I running from in my real life that I keep going to the virtual bushes of porn websites and jerking off to this crap?
There are going to be deeper issues there. And if you want, you can check out my sexual self-mastery series if you want to get a bit more info, or check out my Stop Porn Start Living Guide.
But at the end of the day here, guys, you got to wake up. Otherwise, you’re just going to live as a cuck, and you’re never going to be really happy with yourself, because that’s not the man you are meant to be.
